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Ultimately, the only person who gets to label your identity is you. And no matter what label you choose to use — if you use any label at all — it should be respected. Remember that there are plenty of resources, organizations, and individuals out there who are willing to support and help you.

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List of LGBTQ+ terms

Compulsions only lead to more compulsions and avoidance only leads to more avoidance. This is really only natural for people to do. It is instinctive to try to escape or avoid that which makes you anxious. Unfortunately, this is of no help in OCD. Another problem that arises from performing compulsions is that those who keep checking their own reactions to members of the opposite or same sex will inevitably create a paradox for themselves.

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Someone whose gender is the same as the sex they were assigned at birth. For example, a cis gender woman is someone who was assigned female at birth and continues to live and identify as a woman. Calling someone by their birth name after they have changed their name. This term is often associated with trans people who have changed their name as part of their transition.