Cute ways to ask a guy out gay

Keep an open mind for an infinite amount of scenarios: He may be gay and not ready to come out; he may be gay and is just not into you; he may be straight and a homophobe; he may be straight and gay friendly; or he may be gay and into you. Don't focus on your wants right now; focus on what is.

50 Gay Questions To Ask on a First Date

Books, movies, television, music, etc. Who is your celebrity crush? Who was your first queer celebrity crush? What album could you listen to on repeat for an entire day? What queer actor should play you in a biopic about your life? If your life were a television show, what would be the theme song?

Is He Gay or Not? Asking a Guy Out

Join an organization! Get a plot in a community garden! Go to a protest! Look for activities, groups and spaces that are genuinely engaging to you and will get you out of your familiar routine with its familiar cast of people, none of whom are probably your future girlfriend or else they would be already.

No Tinder, No Problem: The Ancient Art of Asking Someone on a Gay Date IRL

How many films from the Autostraddle Encyclopedia of Lesbian Cinema have you seen? This question provides a built-in activity! You can scroll through the list together! And also make plans to watch some movies together! Want to be memorable? Ask some of these hyperspecific, open-ended, or just downright weird in a fun way questions!